Modern masculinity in India is undergoing a transformation, yet societal expectations and gender-specific laws continue to confine men to rigid roles.
This blog explores how these issues shape modern masculinity, making men silent victims in a system that often ignores their struggles.
Despite changes in societal attitudes, men still face legal and social biases in women’s related matter. The bias affects men well-being, particularly in situations involving domestic violence, custody, or false accusations of dowry harassment or rape laws.
Struggles of Modern Masculinity involves:
Domestic Abuse and Societal Stigma
Domestic violence laws in India, fails to acknowledge that men can be victims. Male victims of abuse often face stigma from family and friends, who may view their situation as a “weakness.” In cases where men are verbally, emotionally, or physically abused by their partners, they are left with no options to seek help or protection.
False Accusations and Reputational Damage
False accusations under laws like Dowry harassment, Section 498A of the IPC, BNS 85 or false rape cases can be devastating. Men facing unfounded accusations of dowry harassment or rape laws endure not only legal repercussions but also severe social stigma. These accusations can lead to job losses, financial strain, and permanent damage to their reputations, leaving many men feeling ostracized. The inability to defend themselves effectively creates a sense of helplessness, making men silent victims of a system that presumes their guilt.
Custody Battles and Emotional Estrangement
In divorce and custody cases, men are often relegated to a secondary role, with courts commonly granting custody to mothers. Societal expectations discourage men from expressing these emotions openly. The stigma of appearing “emotional” further isolates fathers from seeking support, exacerbating their struggles.
Mental Health Challenges
Modern masculinity is often defined by silent suffering. Men facing abuse, false accusations, or estrangement from their children frequently experience mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. However, the stigma around men seeking mental health support remains strong. This pressure to remain emotionally resilient leads many men to internalize their struggles, which can have severe psychological effects.
Path Toward Gender Neutrality
This will be a great example of progressive culture in legal system by recognizing men as potential victims, India’s legal system would allow men the opportunity to share their experiences without fear of judgment. Countries like the United States and the United Kingdom have implemented gender-neutral domestic violence laws that allow both men and women to access protections.
Modern Masculinity Deserve the Legal Protection
Modern masculinity should not mean silent suffering. Men deserve the equal legal protections and social support as other gender, especially when facing situations of abuse, estrangement, or false accusations.
By embracing gender-neutral reforms, India can create a legal framework that respects and values the experiences of all individuals. True equality means recognizing the silent struggles of men and creating a society where all people feel supported and protected.
